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The relation between the prophet Muhammad and non-Muslims was more than mere peace and harmony; it was a relation of kindness in the fullest sense of the word.
We are not telling a lie by saying that the prophet Muhammad used to deal with the non-Muslims in the manner he dealt with his relatives. To exemplify, Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) narrated a strange incident of the prophet Muhammad, Anas stated: there was a Jewish boy used to serve the prophet. Once, the boy fell ill, the prophet visited him. The prophet sat behind his head and said to him: embrace Islam. At that moment, the boy looked to his father, who in turn said to his sick son: Obey Aba-Al-Qassim! The boy embraced Islam. The prophet went out saying: praise be to Allah who has saved him from the hell-fire[1].
You may deeply contemplate by both the mind and heart how the prophet seeks a Jewish boy to serve him! Indeed, this is to make the life inside Median with non-Muslims normal. Moreover, the boy fell ill and the prophet Muhammad went to visit him at his home!!
Keeping in mind that the most supreme figure in Medina, the prophet Muhammad, visits a Jewish server boy would reflect the significance of the prophetic attitude.
Has it never happened globally before to a president of a state to visit his sick server who is not embracing his religion?!
We became familiar with such situations of our prophet Muhammad, so no more we analyze and examine the incident, rather; we make contemplation on the very valuable situations of the prophet Muhammad which would provide us with the good and wisdom.
Over and above, the prophet does not forget his main task in life, namely conveying Islam that he asked the boy to embrace Islam. When the boy accepted Islam, the prophet went out delighted as if one of his dearest relatives accepted Islam.
This is indeed the kindness in the fullest sense of the word.
In this connection, Asmaa[2] bint As-Sidiq, (May Allah be pleased with them) narrates that her polytheist mother[3] came to her at the peace covenant conducted with Quraish people.
Asmaa inquired the prophet saying: O Allah'a messenger! My mother came to me wishing for maintaining relations with her, is it permissible to me? The prophet replied: yes, you should do that[4]).
The prophet ordered asmaa to maintain the relation with her polytheist mother, htough quraish was warrior party at that time, however; there was temporarily peace covenant, so the prophet has not forbidden the polytheist woman to enter Median or the home of Asmaa, the home of Az-Zubair ibn Al-`Awam[5]. He was a prominent companion in Medina. Though, he may have secrets that polytheists of Quraish should not be informed on, the prophet Muhammad has not banned a Muslim daughter to maintain the relation with her polytheist mother.
The prophet showed not the least degree of hesitation as this is the state of kindness!!
At another affable situation, `Abdullah ibn `umar relates that `uMar ibn Al-Khattab saw a pure silk garment at the door of the mosque. By then, `Umar said: O Allah's Messenger! It would be good for you to buy this garment to wear it on Fridays and to the delegations. The prophet replied: those who wear garments like this one have no portion in the Hereafter (Paradise).
After that, pure silk garments came before the prophet who gave `Umar one of them. At that moment, `Umar said: O Allah's Messenger! You gave me such garment to wear while, earlier, you told me that it is a garment of those having no portion in the Hereafter. The prophet replied: I have not given it to you to wear. `Umar gave it to a polytheist brother in Mecca[6].
`Umar gave as present the silk garment to his polytheist brother[7] and the prophet showed no objection and it is well-known that the prophet's approval stands as Sunnah.
Imam An-Nawawi commented on this prophetic attitude saying: this indicates the permissibility to maintain the relation with the disbeliever relatives, to deal them kindly and to gift with them[8].
Moreover, the prophet Muhammad acted in away many people find strange, namely when he allowed the Christians of Najran to perform their prayers inside the prophetic mosque!!
Ibn Sayed An-Nas[9], in his book (`Uyun Al-Athar) stated: the time of their prayers has come; they stood to perform it in the prophetic mosque. By then, the prophet said: leave them. They prayed heading to the East[10].
The peak of kindness and tolerance is reflected in the prophet's permission to the Christians to enter his mosque and perform their prayers therein.
[1]- Al-Bukhari, Book (Al-Janaez- Funerals). Section: (Is it permissible to perform funeral prayer on the boy who embraces Islam and then passes away? And, Is it permissible to put forth Islam to the boy? (1290), At-Tirmithi (2247) and An-Nassae in hid Book (Assunan Al-Kubra (7500).
[2]- Asmaa, the wife of Az-zubair ibn Al-`Awam. She embraced Islam in its early stage in Mecca. Then, she migrated to Median while pregnant. She gave birth to `Abdullah in Quba. She died in Mecca shortly after the death of her son on Jumada 1, 73 A.H. Review: "Usd Al-Ghabah" by ibn Al-Athir 6/12 and "Al-Isabah" by ibn Hajar (10971).
[3]- she is Fatilah bint Sa`d from the tribe bani `Amir ibn Luay. She is the wife of Abu-Bakr As-Sidiq and the mother of Asmaa and `Abdullah. Ibn Al-Athir referred to her as female companion stating: she embraced Islam late. She came to Medina while polytheist after Al-Hudaybyah Reconciliation. Review: "Usd Al-Ghabah" by ibn Al-Athir 6/242.
[4]- Al-Bukhari, Book (Donation and its virtue), chapter (giving presents to polytheist) (2447) and Imam Muslim, Book (Zakat- Alms giving), chapter (the virtue of spending and giving charities to one's relatives)(1003).
[5]- He was surnamed (Abu-`Abdullah). His mother is Safyah bint `Abdil-Muttalib ibn Hashim. Az-Zubair witnessed all the battles of the prophet. He was the first to unsheathe a sword in Islam. He was martyred in the battle of camel. Review: " Al-Isti`ab" ny ibn `Abdul-Barr 1/151 and "Usd Al-Ghabah" by ibn Al-Athir 1/377 and "Al-Isabah" by ibn Hajar (2791).
[6]- Al-Bukhari, Book (Friday), chapter, (the one should wear the best he owns) (841). Musjlsim, Book(Dress and adornment), chapter: (forbiddance to use the vessels made of gold and silver (2018)
[7]- `Uthman ibn `Abd hakim, a stepbrother of `Umar. It was not sure if he embraced Islam or not. Review "Fath Al-Bari" by ibn Hajar 1/331
[8]- An-Nawawi: Al-Minhaj, Sharh Sahih Musim ibn Al-Hajaj 14/39
[9]- He is Muhammad ibn Abi-`Amr, Imam Abu-Al-Fath, from Andalusia. He was known" ibn Sayed An-Nas" (661-734). He was trustworthy and versed in Hadith Science and authentic as to his narrations. He was expert on Tabaqat-ul-Ruwah (a classification of Hadith narrators in groups based on age, contemporariness, and receiving Hadith from a specific shaykh). Among his compilations are: (Bushra al-Labib Be Thikr Al-habib). Review book (Al-Wafi Bi Al-Wafyat) by As-Safadi 1/126, and book (Hadyat Al-`Arifin) by Al-Babani 1/528.
[10]- ibn Sayed An-Nas in his book (`Uyun Al-Athar), 1/348.
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